Disclaimer: If you experience pain during penetration, we strongly suggest that before investing in a toy, you see a gynaecologist and a pelvic floor specialist who can properly diagnose you. Sometimes the pain in the vagina is not just from tensed muscles. You could have a sexually transmitted infection, endometriosis, UTI or dealing with pain due to PTSD. Self-diagnosing and self-healing can be dangerous. The first steps of healing are always a proper medical diagnosis.